Heres the thing. I’ve asked my girlfriend of two years to marry me, she’s accepted and we’re so happy together, we’ve never argued and every night we’re cuddled up in bed together by 9pm. She’s amazing and I love her with everything I got.
However, we’ve never had sex. She’s had some bad experiences and I’m not the type of guy that is mad about sex. I’m still a virgin and I cant wait to lose my virginity to her.
Our first time sex experience will be on our honeymoon and I want to make it very romantic, the whole petals on the bed and I’m going to put candles all around the suite as well as her favourite love songs playing in the background.
I’m not forcing her and I’ve told her that she shouldnt be scared again because If she doesnt like it, i will stop and i will , i love her that much. anyway,
I just want some tips about how to make it extra special for her. And as she hasnt had sex for two years, Will she bleed again? Just so I can be prepared.
thanks in advance.
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Take a deep breath and try to relax. She should try to do the same. Sounds like you have a very romantic night planned. Sounds like you have it all planned out and it sounds great. Any girl would be lucky to have you.
I am hearing sex, sex, yet you say your not mad for sex.
Any way you both are not married so no tips. I think you should go ahead and have sex with her why wait.
She won’t bleed despite how long ago she had sex and one thing yu can do is to make the room smell like vanilla or w/e fragrance she likes with the candles or yu can use insence. Also make sure the room is a little on the warm side. In addition, let there be light but at a moderate level, more low. And if yu can , the songs that she likes try to get um edited so that they can play at a slower tempo… not too slow though
make sure she feels very relaxed, very comfortable, and very aroused by the time you’re ready to penetrate. Be gentle and go slow at first. She won’t bleed, but it might hurt a bit after two years, especially if you are on the large side. But yeah, go slowly, don’t rush into penetration. Lol. Tell her you want her to tell you when she is ready for you, that way you can be sure that, well, she is ready! very polite too I think, specially for a first time and a respectful marital relationship